need advice

[deadly virus]

I have apparently made a huge mistake and the consequences of my drunken foolishness have finally caught up to me. I have a very good close friend who I love dearly. So the other night I ask some girl out over a facebook message (i know.. I was drunk). I told my friend's sister.... who doesn't delete her text messages. My friend found out and was understandably upset with me. Her sister had told me some stuff about this girl and after hearing about her and what she did to my friend, I felt horrible. I tried to explain to my friend, but she didn't seem to want to listen. Another friend of mine says I should wait day or 2 for her to cool off and then try to talk to her. I never would've done this if I knew before hand I never would've said anything. I just feel terrible


now.. over a week later. she still seems to hold a grudge and won't 猿が大好きだよ listen to me. I swear if she wasn't a good friend, i'd say screw it and move on. Someone joked and told me she's just mad that I've taken an interest in someone else other than her... unlikely, but I can still wish.

what to do.. and be serious now

[Redhollowlives999]

Usually I despise crap like this "love stories" and etc but when they do happen to me, I usually prefer to force the other person to lisen.

Like go to her house and knock and KEEP KNOCKING TIL SHE'S STOPS BEING A FEMALE DOG!!!
Then try talking

[Lonewulf]

Well....that's quite a pickle...and not the tasty kind. I'm afraid I have no real advice...course i'm a bit sauced at the moment...

[deadly virus]

i'm getting treated like a leper for just sending a few messages.... if I was sleeping with her I can understand. Oh and btw, the friend who is mad at me is the one I made that topic about all that while ago... you know..... YOU KNOW

[Redhollowlives999]

I know
She sounds like a bipolar 'female dog'
At any rate sounds lie she has control of the argument; if you really wanna fix it heres what you should do (and there's really no reason for it not working)



â‘ let her cool for about another week... If things don't settle themselves then get to work.
â‘¡talk to a closer friend of hers like a sister or neibor or whatever and tell them the situation to try to hear her side... Hopefully they can explain YOUR situation (ask them to explain your part in other words)
â‘¢stay in contact with said person for awhile (1-3 days) see what information you get

And finally work with any information to get her to listen (she might be more understanding now that she knows the situation)




Good luck

[deadly virus]

well just when I thought we were cool, she brings it up again. 猿が大好きだよ her... seriously. She's acting like a child and won't respond to me. She said once before "Not my fault you're interested ina midget whore." what I wanted to say back was "yeah and its not my fault you're interested in someone who cheats on you"... but I didn't.

this whole 質 is 何だよこれ！

[Redhollowlives999]

Okay now she's just teasing; nobodies that 何だよこれ！..

[deadly virus]

she said "im jk god.."

i felt dumb. lets burn her at the stake for making me feel dumb

[Redhollowlives999]

I'll start the fire!


I don't believe her...

[deadly virus]

im not convinced either, but what can yuo do except for....