Ask Ram Something

[Redhollowlives999]

Too many Questions... OVERLOAD *Kahplooey*

You are unfit to host a topic like this

This whole thing makes me laugh



Seventh Day Adventist




Why you emotionally weak when it comes to criticism?
Why won't you answer Zup's question properly?
Why you no praise Sooyoung?
Why you calling me a stalker?



I'm the one dying from Sooyoung's smile



It also heals me.... SO CONFLICTING >_______<

[Rammerrush]

I'm gonna go backwards for this one.

I didn't call you a stalker I called Zup a stalker

I don't praise her cuz you praise her more than enough. We wouldn't want her head to get too big now would we?

Which question?

Hmmm I wouldn't say I am. Theres just a difference between Constructive Criticism and hearing that your piece sucks. Like I love hearing what I can do to improve something I've written or my writing overall, but I hate hearing that something I did was wrong or stupid. I'd rather they just tell me how I could improve that wrong or stupid part and make it less so.

Understand?

[Redhollowlives999]

No.

All the questions.


The point of harsh opinions is so that you can defend your point and discover new methods in a more fun way >:P


Why you no get this?

[Zup]

but I hate hearing that something I did was wrong or stupid.

Those kinds of criticisms are the best motivators

I'd rather they just tell me how I could improve that wrong or stupid part and make it less so.

The harsher criticisms are the ones that hit home more than slight/weak ones or none at all

Just utilize their potential more

[Redhollowlives999]

but I hate hearing that something I did was wrong or stupid.

Those kinds of criticisms are the best motivators

I'd rather they just tell me how I could improve that wrong or stupid part and make it less so.

The harsher criticisms are the ones that hit home more than slight/weak ones or none at all

Just utilize their potential more

What he said.

[Rammerrush]

They aren't motivators. They're put downs.

Just like when I say your SNSD is stupid.

Pisses you off don't it

[Redhollowlives999]

They aren't motivators. They're put downs.

False.

Just like when I say your SNSD is stupid.

That doesn't even make sense.


1. SNSD rocks, thus that makes your argument completely invalid.

2. You aren't bettering them if you're not telling them that directly. Just telling us that very false line isn't gonna better/put down anything. Now if you had said that, oh, my soccer skills suck, then that would have been a better example.


Now if you had said that (and if you had ever seen me play), then I wouldn't care first off because its you (same thing you do with me >_>), and second off, it won't be a put down, it would actually be a motivator, why should one voice slow me down? If anything I should be making an effort to silence that voice.



Why you so different?

[Rammerrush]

So your saying that for example a kid picking on someone else in a school isn't a bully. He's a motivator

[Redhollowlives999]

He does that for no reason. Besides it makes you stronger.




People who live life without any sort of plight end up weak.


Why you no agree?

[Rammerrush]

He does that for a reason. He thinks it's true.

Do you take that as constructive criticsim and try to change that within yourself?
I should hope not, since that's just one moron's opinion. And with no reasoning behind it it's useless.
Critiques that just say whats wrong are sub par compared to the helpfulness of criticism that helps you improve.